If you’re tired of doing everything “because they can’t,” here's how to name the pattern, protect your energy, and reclaim ...
Weaponized incompetence is a phenomenon when someone knowingly or unknowingly demonstrates an inability to perform certain ...
"My ex-husband got so mad that I asked him to load the dishwasher that he literally THREW the stoneware plates into the bottom rack, breaking several." ...
My eighth-grade home economics class taught me that chores get done faster when you work in pairs. One person scrubs the dishes while the other dries and puts them away. So, imagine if your ...
Maybe you see it A LOT when it comes to household chores. Like, that one time you asked your husband to do a verrrry simple task like hanging up laundry, and he did it like this (because "you do it ...
We all know someone who seems to “forget” how to do something they’ve done a hundred times before: a partner who can’t figure out the laundry settings, a colleague who somehow never learns the new ...
Sounds to me like your husband might have a textbook case of weaponized incompetence. Ideally those last two words should be accompanied by a film noir scare chord for dramatic effect, but if they ...